Also I feel
I remember how my husband asked once, what movie I want to watch, and I answered it the following: I do not know.
And what movie you would like to watch?
Now I always know precisely that I want, and I do everything to reach the desirable.
Also I feel like much more confident person.
One of questions which I always ask myself, communicating with my children, such: What in this situation I want?
Be consecutive in the desires.
If you do not show sequence in the desires, children by all means will use your indecision.